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Love
Aug 21, 2007 1:03:45 GMT -5
Post by silygoosetaco on Aug 21, 2007 1:03:45 GMT -5
the only way that some one can actually tell now a days is 1. talk every day 2. live with each other and know each other schedule 3. if you are engaged and are about to be wed
honesty is a very important factor
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Love
Aug 22, 2007 14:11:05 GMT -5
Post by LokiMoon on Aug 22, 2007 14:11:05 GMT -5
I have a cousin who is 12, and she has a boyfriend who is 13, maybe 14 at the most....At 12?! Sorry, but at 12 years?!, nah keep them as friends at that age. You have a whole life ahead of you to worry about that sort of stuff.
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Love
Aug 22, 2007 16:39:19 GMT -5
Post by silygoosetaco on Aug 22, 2007 16:39:19 GMT -5
ya but you shouldnt stop love people have to learn for themselves at some point
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Love
Aug 24, 2007 7:51:26 GMT -5
Post by LokiMoon on Aug 24, 2007 7:51:26 GMT -5
I don't try and stop her, it is her life after all.
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Love
Aug 28, 2007 3:38:04 GMT -5
Post by smurfette on Aug 28, 2007 3:38:04 GMT -5
i use to define love as this feeling where can not stop thinking of that one person, where this overwhelming feeling comes up whenever with them or think of them. now not sure does it even exist or is is somethig so remote only a few really have it.
love at first sight can it be that really maybe but more like lust till you are with them long enough to know it really is love.
not sure if love is at any age esppecially as a kid but probably can through sometimes the thoughts of love get confused with like or even infatuation at that age or so it was for me when i was that age.
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Love
Aug 29, 2007 20:11:38 GMT -5
Post by Luna Sasaguri on Aug 29, 2007 20:11:38 GMT -5
i use to define love as this feeling where can not stop thinking of that one person, where this overwhelming feeling comes up whenever with them or think of them. now not sure does it even exist or is is somethig so remote only a few really have it. What you describe there is more infatuation than love. Love involves sacrifice and most likely emotional pain. I mean anyone can be constantly thinking of someone, almost to the point of being obsessed. In fact, it could be an obsession misconstrued as love. It's always bad when obsession is perceived as love; bad for the receiver and bad for the obsessed.
It's simple and easy to be infatuated; it's not a deep or complicated emotion. Love is nearly the opposite: it requires maturity, sacrifice, experience, strength, etc.[/b]
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Love
Aug 31, 2007 23:36:39 GMT -5
Post by ISighZ on Aug 31, 2007 23:36:39 GMT -5
Love is just love. It's nonsense says reason It is what it is says love It's unhappiness says calculation It's nothing but pain says fear It's without prospect says insight It is what it is says love It's ridiculous says pride It's frivolous says caution It's impossible says experience It is what it is says love -Erich Fried There are four levels of profound love 1,Physical Attraction Love-Orgasm and Genitals 2,Intellectual/Cerebral Love - Fantasy and Mind games. 3,Emotional/Affective Love - Union, Come together. 4,Spiritual Love(Soulmate) - Sexual activity become spiritual closeness Most people can only reach 1st and 2nd level of love. Learn those from my psychology class. "To love is to be vulnerable. Love anything, and your heart will be wrung and possibly be broken. If you want to make sure of keeping it intact, you must give your heart to no one... Wrap it carefully round with hobbies and little luxuries, avoid all entanglements, Lock it up safe in the casket or coffin of your selfishness... The only place outside heavens where you can be perfectly safe from all dangers, all the perturbations of love is hell."-C.S. Lewis A quote that i thought i should share.
My Definition of love Love is the more you give the more you got to give. is unconditional is i want to be there is i want.... and i feel ...
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Love
Sept 2, 2007 18:42:41 GMT -5
Post by silygoosetaco on Sept 2, 2007 18:42:41 GMT -5
love is a mixture of illusion and reality love has gain and loss love basically divides you from choice you must make in your life love has the power to make you happy, but can give you great conflicts
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Love
Sept 5, 2007 0:14:43 GMT -5
Post by silygoosetaco on Sept 5, 2007 0:14:43 GMT -5
short and simple nice
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Love
Sept 5, 2007 19:38:52 GMT -5
Post by Luna Sasaguri on Sept 5, 2007 19:38:52 GMT -5
Love is a powerful spiritual connection between two people idk just kinda threw that in there.. That's one aspect, yes.
But with relationships, like bf/gf or husband and wife, the physical aspect is a big part too. [/b]
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Love
Sept 6, 2007 0:08:12 GMT -5
Post by silygoosetaco on Sept 6, 2007 0:08:12 GMT -5
i think it really depends on who needs it more and who wants it more in the end
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Love
Sept 6, 2007 19:12:12 GMT -5
Post by Luna Sasaguri on Sept 6, 2007 19:12:12 GMT -5
i think it really depends on who needs it more and who wants it more in the end You are referring to what exactly?[/b]
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Love
Sept 7, 2007 0:22:43 GMT -5
Post by silygoosetaco on Sept 7, 2007 0:22:43 GMT -5
just love in general (no not making love) if you been single for a while, people tend to miss the feeling of appreciation of a loved one and they begin to thrive on it. some people need more love and appreciation because the current partner is either not doing it right or has no interest in the matter and gives up
people that end up getting too much love gets bored and leave to find something better. the reason why the partner gives so much love is because he wants the same token back
ugh love is complicated
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Love
Sept 7, 2007 18:54:58 GMT -5
Post by Luna Sasaguri on Sept 7, 2007 18:54:58 GMT -5
Perhaps, but if it was simple, I don't think it would be as enjoyable. But that's just me.[/b]
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Love
Sept 7, 2007 19:00:21 GMT -5
Post by luvaluva on Sept 7, 2007 19:00:21 GMT -5
[glow=black,2,300]Love is everywhere.......[/glow]
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