|
Post by Frankenstein Heart on Aug 19, 2007 2:14:16 GMT -5
I was calling YOU such...
|
|
rageandlove
Lvl. 3 S.O.B.
????#??? ???????? ?
Posts: 89
|
Post by rageandlove on Aug 19, 2007 2:19:40 GMT -5
me i am not "bi-curious" ok i kno what i am
|
|
|
Post by Frankenstein Heart on Aug 19, 2007 2:27:50 GMT -5
Then hokay? Fuck, brah!
|
|
|
Post by silygoosetaco on Aug 19, 2007 23:58:10 GMT -5
theres a line between some one saying that they are bi curious and some one saying they are bi. bi curious means you thought about it and want to try it (some lie say they havent when they really have) being bi means actually liking and trying both ways but a TRUE bi person doesnt really exist because i most of the time, they only perfer one sex over the other (which turns out to be there own sex)
now in the begining when you asked about a young age? i think its possible but most of it comes from straight confusion, lonelyness, stereotyped, or just curious
anything is possible
|
|
|
Post by Frankenstein Heart on Aug 20, 2007 2:09:37 GMT -5
I was only calling...that chick up thar bi-curious, 'coz she never said otherwise And I love messing with people...
But yeh- I agree with you on some of that, at least. Yet, I think you CAN like more than one gender.
You know there are at least three defining genders, currently...? The third is not so deliberate, but it's used for...let's say sex changes... Also, there are guys (Or girls) who believe they should have been born the opposite gender.
|
|
|
Post by Luna Sasaguri on Aug 20, 2007 17:47:44 GMT -5
but a TRUE bi person doesnt really exist because i most of the time, they only perfer one sex over the other (which turns out to be there own sex) I don't think that's true. I have no evidence or experience to back that up, but still I think a person can genuinely and truly like both genders.
Maybe a girl will like guys a little more than girls, but she still likes them both. The fact that she likes them both is enough to consider her bi.[/b]
|
|
|
Post by Frankenstein Heart on Aug 20, 2007 23:03:22 GMT -5
^Well...that may not all be true, either. She usually has an attraction to both- THAT'S what would define "bisexual".
Well, wait...that's just what you said, yet phrased better to opinion (Not saying that I am better with words- That is hardly possible).
|
|
|
Post by Luna Sasaguri on Aug 21, 2007 0:08:21 GMT -5
^Well...that may not all be true, either. She usually has an attraction to both- THAT'S what would define "bisexual".
Well, wait...that's just what you said, yet phrased better to opinion (Not saying that I am better with words- That is hardly possible). It may have come out a little strange, my example, but what I meant was, FOR EXAMPLE if there happened to be a girl who likes guys and girls, but guys more than girls. She likes them both, which makes her bi.[/b]
|
|
|
Post by Frankenstein Heart on Aug 21, 2007 0:37:49 GMT -5
I was trying to say that it isn't necessarily all she has to feel... I mean- That might not be it. A feeling she, or he, is willing to act upon- One o' things things, ja?
Unless there is more occurrences of this sort, just the uh, "liking" thing...
|
|
|
Post by silygoosetaco on Aug 21, 2007 1:12:37 GMT -5
buts it still hard now a days cuz bisexual people like more for the physical experience rather than the emotion and fullfilling relationship
cuz when you think about it, even when they say there bi,(or just bi curious) this what goes on in thier head:
"ill have fun in a relationship with the same sex for now but in the end, ill eventually have to be some one of the opposite sex"
either cuz religion or satisfaction of friends and family theres a lot of peer pressure out there
|
|
|
Post by Frankenstein Heart on Aug 21, 2007 2:02:51 GMT -5
This is all true, and unfortunately there are a lot of lairs out there. No one is ever truthful in this nature.
This day and age, all people DO want are sexual experiences. As for those who don't enjoy acts of sex just to "have fun"...they think more about it They know that whomever they end up with, they must be right for them (Just like any "normal" couple).
|
|
|
Post by silygoosetaco on Aug 21, 2007 12:42:52 GMT -5
i concure but in todays generation, there are way more deceptions and lies out there. this aint the old times where you can be prosecuted for commiting adultery or liking the same sex we have no limits when it comes to love any more or who we choose to be. even though some bisexuals are liars, i just like the fact that they are open minded instead of having a very narrow point of view when it comes to liking some one
|
|
|
Post by Luna Sasaguri on Aug 21, 2007 18:00:11 GMT -5
buts it still hard now a days cuz bisexual people like more for the physical experience rather than the emotion and fullfilling relationship cuz when you think about it, even when they say there bi,(or just bi curious) this what goes on in thier head: "ill have fun in a relationship with the same sex for now but in the end, ill eventually have to be some one of the opposite sex" either cuz religion or satisfaction of friends and family theres a lot of peer pressure out there Whoa there. That's a huge generalization. What you refer to are sex fiends. Don't try to classify them with real bisexuals. A relationship isn't purely about the physical.
The only difference between bi's and gay or straight people is that they like both genders as opposed to just one. They can have a meaningful emotional relationship; it's not always just about the sex and what not.[/b]
|
|
|
Post by silygoosetaco on Aug 22, 2007 0:11:23 GMT -5
buts it still hard now a days cuz bisexual people like more for the physical experience rather than the emotion and fullfilling relationship cuz when you think about it, even when they say there bi,(or just bi curious) this what goes on in thier head: "ill have fun in a relationship with the same sex for now but in the end, ill eventually have to be some one of the opposite sex" either cuz religion or satisfaction of friends and family theres a lot of peer pressure out there Whoa there. That's a huge generalization. What you refer to are sex fiends. Don't try to classify them with real bisexuals. A relationship isn't purely about the physical.
The only difference between bi's and gay or straight people is that they like both genders as opposed to just one. They can have a meaningful emotional relationship; it's not always just about the sex and what not.[/b][/quote] thats why its soo hard to sort the truth from the liars. ive been aroung these liars all my life and it has left a huge imprint in my generalization (by the way, sorry if it was offense) thats why this topic can be very confusing. you got liars in the mix. plus its also to generalize and look at the point of view. if you see a bi person with the same sex, you end up seeing them with them for a long time and after a while, you forget and THEY forget what it is like to be with the opposite sex. after a long period of time (depending on the relationship and experiences they have been through) the end up choosin the same sex over again sorry if its offense but im only saying on observations i have seen. it doesnt have to be true
|
|
|
Post by Frankenstein Heart on Aug 22, 2007 1:51:10 GMT -5
That would the opposite of "asexual", I forget what it's called- A swinger, I suppose. They don't care who their partner is, as long as their gettin some.
I've yet to find anything you've said offensive So don't worry about it, anyway...
|
|